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Father's day ramblings

Today was the first Father's Day since my father's death. Given my relationship with him, I did not expect to feel that much emotion today. Surprise, you can never predict what will be depressing. I have a few friends that also lost their fathers this year so that made me feel a bit less alone in the confusion. One old friend lost her spouse recently, so I can only imagine how tortured today was for her and her kids.

One facebook friend pointed out the old cliche "anyone can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a dad." I guess that describes part of my sadness, I'm not sure if my father crossed the line to be a caring and involved dad. Life moves on and in some ways this just does not matter.

Today's photo:

as with most inmates of cat prison, this one swears that he was framed

photo, June 18

I'm not sure why this one rock was left in place when this parking lot was built

photos, June 17

A few photos taken during today's rather nice sun showers

 
 

 
 

photos, June 16


 
 

photo, June 15